Showing posts with label Mama. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mama. Show all posts

4.26.2012

Panggilan saat Pacaran ; "Mama Papa"

Buat semua orang yang pernah dan saat ini pacaran, pernah nggak sih panggil pacarnya dengan sebutan "Mama Papa" ?????

Pasti ada saatnya, kalian kira jamannya panggil pacar dengan sebutan gitu, tapi lama-kelamaan jaman mulai berubah juga dan sebutan "Mama Papa" muali jadi ALAY!

Nggak salah sih kalau kalian suka manggil satu sama lain dengan sebutan itu tapi pernah nggak mikir apa kata oramg lain? Emang sih di sekolah atau di rumah atau pun di tempat ibadah masing-masing mengajarkan kalian untuk jangan mendengarkan"Kata Orang" tapi masa kalian pede sih saling memanggil "Mama Papa" gtu? Apalagi kalau tercantum di social network yah, kayak Facebook atau Twitter.

"Gimana pendapat kalian-kalian yang pacaran?" 

"Panteskah pakai panggilan "Mama Papa" ?" 

Bukannya aku bertentangan gitu yah, cuma kadang lihat umur seseorang dan pakai panggilan itu nggak pantes. Emang pengen cepat married yah biar bisa saling memanggil "Mama Papa" ?
Terserah kalian sih yang pacaran pengen manggil "Mama Papa" atau "Mami Papi" mungkin mau di buat tambah keren pakai "Oma Opa", who knows?

Aku juga mikir dari pengalaman sendiri juga. Dulu pas masih SMP (belum tau apa-apa tentang pacaran), kira keren lah manggil pacarku dengan nama "Papa" sekarang semakin tua yah, mikir-mikir lagi manggil pacarku apa. Manggil "Papa" terlalu pengen cepat married.

Menurutku yah, anak-anak remaja walaupun orang yang dewasa seharusnya sewajarnya aja pacarannya. Mulai dengan nama panggilan. Nama panggilan yang pantes lah di pakai buat anak-anak remaja; sayang, yank, baby, ayank, honey, byby, hun, etc. Mungkin kalau kalian udah mau married, baru pakai "Mama Papa" atau "Mami Papi".

Comment di bawah menurut kalian tentang panggilan "Mama Papa" !

3.06.2012

Trying to Adapt to My New Life with mama

It's already been 3 months I've lived back in America especially in New York. It's so hard for me to adapt to New York. How to live in NYC?! Anyone have advice? And it's also hard for me because it's been so long I haven't lived with my mom and now finally I'm living with her. ❤

New York it's just so crowded and I'm trying to hard to do everything right so my mom would be happy. But she's never been happy since I came. I just made it worse. I'm trying my best to make her proud too.

I know it's hard for my mom when she's working and I'm home alone. She always thinks and worries about me and I'm grateful but sometimes I just can't act thankful for her being there for me. I always seemed to act ungrateful to her when she tells me something. I always yell at her even though I wasn't going to. I'm just trying to get use to everything. Especially the love and careness of my own mom. Even though I grew up with my dad and I'm already use to not being cared at all but I seem to have that same old attitude when I'm with my mom and I don't know how to get rid of it.

Mama, if you are reading this. I'm sorry I can't be your perfect daughter that can do everything and always make you proud. Give me time to adapt and change just for you. I'm trying my best but I also know it's not good enough. But I will learn, will change and will adapt. I will adapt and change everything about me just for you :')

I'm sorry I also make you stressed and cry. I just want to make things right now.
I love you mama :')
Always and forever ❤